Fear Of Getting Hurt - This may surprise you but some people blow hot and cold because they fear getting hurt.
In a bizarre way, he/she believes that by behaving in this manner, they are controlling the situation, hence their emotions, thereby eliminating the risk of getting their heart broken.
We have been on and off since April mainly because he runs hot and cold.
He acts like he is a boyfriend 60 percent of the time, but we have had no label. I even feel like he may love me at times, but I also feel I can’t get to know him.
Dear Lauren, I’ve been sorta seeing this guy for awhile.
I told him at the beginning that I was not ready for a relationship.
Just because YOU’VE changed your mind doesn't mean HE knows the game has changed. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean you have to reciprocate those feelings immediately. Dear Lauren, I’m a good-looking guy, so I know my looks are not the problem. Hi Lauren, I’m friends with this guy and we really get along. He used to text me all the time and now he never texts me unless I text him first. Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.The dating game is full of fun and games, some welcomed and some not.One falling into the latter is dating someone who blows hot & cold.