But there's more than that to your new relationship, as you know, so you could do without the nudges and winks.Many couples have conquered this barrier, remaining happily married, or committed, for decades.We have to pass the torch somehow, but so many of the bridges have been burnt. Older men, by God’s design and grace, there are things we will get from you and no one else.Especially those of us without dads, or Christian dads, or engaged and intentional Christian dads.With Christian blogs today, we can access answers to most every life question without even picking up the phone. It’s hard for most Christians to spend time alone with God.
1) For Lust Maybe you're just hot and he wants you. After all, nature has played a mean trick on humans with women reaching their sexual peak later in life and men reaching it earlier. Not only that, but if a younger man finds you attractive, whether or not you go for it, his attention is flattering.If you want to have children, time does run out at some point.But with an older woman, she is past thinking "family" or already has her family and so the pressure on that young man is off. Today many women have power jobs and make a boat load of ka-ching.Yet the decades sadly so rarely seem to play well together.As a younger man myself, I have tried to identify how exactly older guys can love, exhort, and invest in younger men around them — men like me.