Playing "First-Phone-Call Chicken"So now that we’ve taken care of how you make the call, you may be asking who should make the first call? What about that book The Rules from a few years back? It’s called and it’s an online system that allows both people to talk on the phone without revealing their phone numbers, which eliminates some of the unease that can come with placing a call.
It’s always exciting when you have your first phonecall with someone you’ve met online.So you were none the wiser after the first phone call than you were before?Were you tongue-tied and did you feel that you hadn’t made a very good job of selling yourself?The process of getting to know each one is, at best, imperfect. When a woman calls her match she’s just initiating a conversation. The person who feels a connection first should make the call – regardless of their gender.In online dating, first impressions are crucial: usually people focus on having a good photo or writing a clever profile.